Andi Eigenmann, sa issue kay Philmar; walang “cheating”

Andi Eigenmann at Philmar Alipayo, nag-unfollow sa isa’t isa sa Instagram. Dahil dito, maraming netizens ang nagtatanong. May hindi ba silang pagkakaunawaan?

Hindi lang ito simpleng isyu ng social media. May mga cryptic posts silang ibinahagi. May netizens na nagsasabing tila may third-party na sangkot

Unang nag-post si Andi ng mensahe ng pasasalamat sa mga sumusuporta sa kanya. Pero, sinabi niyang nagulat siya sa ilang komento. Tila iniisip agad ng iba na may nangyaring panloloko.

Para linawin, nagbahagi siya ng screenshot. Ipinakita niya ang kanyang ChatGPT query. Ang tanong niya ay tungkol sa isang sitwasyon. Isang babae, kaibigan ni Philmar, ang nagyayayang magpa-couple tattoo kasama ang kanyang life partner.

“Do you think it’s [suspicious] when a friend invites your life partner to get a love couples’ tattoo with them without even filling you in or consulting you?” tanong ni Andi.

Dagdag pa niya, “But me and my life partner, we had a fight when this happened and she immediately comes to his rescue and invites him to do this?”

Hindi pa doon natapos ang mga pahiwatig ni Andi. Nag-post din siya ng quote na nagsasabing, “Took it personally because I never would’ve done it to you,” at sinabing matagal na niyang napapansin ang red flags pero pinili niyang balewalain.

“I have seen the red flags but chose to look beyond it. Since she was already a friend before I came into the picture. Was shy to call it out to my partner,” aniya.

“Now I realize setting boundaries in a relationship doesn’t make it toxic.”

Samantala, naglabas din ng pahayag si Philmar sa kanyang IG Story, na tila tugon sa isyu.

“Kung ano man ang inyong mabasa, ‘Yan ay totoo. Wala nang taguan dahil mas mahirap,” ayon sa translation ng kaniyang IG story.

Dagdag pa niya, “Kilala niyo naman ano pagkatao ko so siguro kilala niyo din kung ano siya. Di na natin pahabain pa ang lahat!”

Tila tanggap na rin niya ang mga pambabatikos, “You can call me a cheater and ugly now.”

Nagbahagi rin siya ng screenshot ng isang netizen na tinatawag siyang cheater at sinabing, “It all helps. I deserve noon pa man.

Sa kabila ng tensyon, nagpapasalamat pa rin si Philmar sa mga taong patuloy na sumusuporta sa kanya.  

Matatandaang engaged sina Andi at Philmar mula pa noong 2020. Nakilala ang kanilang pamilya bilang *Happy Islanders* na naninirahan sa Siargao.  

Samantala, sa isa pang IG Story, ipinaliwanag ni Andi kung bakit siya nag-post tungkol sa isyu.

Aniya, “MY WHY FOR POSTING: I AM FULLY AWARE THAT MY HUSBAND NEVER CHEATED ON ME WITH THIS GIRL….. I AM ALWAYS AROUND WHEN THEY ARE TOGETHER.”

“I POSTED BECAUSE THIS PERSON BETRAYED ME, ENCOURAGES MY HUSBAND TO BREAK UP W ME DURING EVERY FIGHT EVEN WHEN I ALSO TELL MY SIDE OF THE STORY TO HER. SHE DIDNT HONOR MY SIDE BY CHOOSING TO CELEBRATE HER AND MY HUSBANDS LOVE FOR EACH OTHER BECAUSE THE DAY AFTER OUR FIGHT SHE INSERTED HERSELF IN THE SITUATION BY ENCOURAGING HIM TO GO FOR A SPONTANEOUS LOVE COUPLE TATTOO TOGETHER. (If innocent, why now when he is vulnerable? Why not when were ok? Or maybe why not when things have calmed down??)”

“I REACHED OUT TO HER, TO GET ANY BUT OF EXPLANATION FROM HER FOR THINKING THIS IS A GOOD IDEA, AND SHE CHOSE TO COMPLETELY IGNORE ME.”

“Yes I am hurt that my husband didnt think this would bother me, im not being dumb and ignoring that, BUT POST WAS TO JUST SHOW THAT NO NORMAL PERSON WITH GOOD INTENTIONS WOULD THINK ITS OK FOR A ‘FRIEND’ TO ENCOURAGE SOMEONE ELSE’S HUSBAND TO DO THIS WITHOUT CONSIDERING THE PARTNER’S FEELINGS. SPECIALLY AFTER I TOLD HER THAT EVEN IF WE ARE IN A BAD FIGHT I WOULD ALWAYS WANT AND CHOOSE TO BE OK WITH MY HUSBAND BECAUSE HE IS MY FAMILY.”

Dagdag pa ni Andi, “When my other friends told me that they told their partner’s to stay away from her, I shouldve listened. I should have called it out the first time me and my husband found it weird that she just gets a huge tattoo on her shin dedicated to him! He who is someone else’s husband!!”

“I would never even shared anything at all on here, if she only had the nerve to respond to me.And now I am the bad one,” pagtatapos ni Andi.